Ava Make Up Essentials

secrets...?

dont you just hate it when people trust you with their innermost secret :-(

Public Comments

1. No - I'm flattered and (being trustworthy) have no wish to share a secret with anyone else
2. me to i agree with that last comment
3. At my office I tell people up front, "If you want something to remain a secret, don't tell me." That way I don't get involved in all their petty crap. I am there to do a job, not to hear their personal problems.
4. it can be uncomfortable sometimes, depending on the gravity of the secret confided. Then it becomes a burden, as now you know something others shouldn't know, but which is in fact non of your business too. People who confide naturally consider you a trustworthy person , but many fail to realize the effect it does to the person,
5. Normally you're right but sometimes you do have secrets that you can't keep it inside and you feel that you need to share it with someone. But never share secrets that you may feel ashamed of if it's known so u don't have to worry if this secret is spelled out.
6. not really sometimes it can be nerve racking but really it shows they trust you and know they can depend on you to keep quiet, plus they have an outlet for their emotions, someone they can talk to. besides a stranger. you should be flattered really if you dont like it just tell them the truth .
7. not at all, i think if someone wishes to impart that information on to me, then I am happy to receive it . I like the idea that someone could trust me like that.
8. I would not allow people to entrust their innermost secrets to me as I would not wish to be pressured into revealing mine in return.
9. I'd rather know I was trusted and would feel honoured someone felt I was reliable enough to share something important with. If you feel it is a burden or a hassle the right thing to do would be to tell someone you aren't to be trusted with a secret but - it seems a shame you'd feel that way.
10. If it is a person who is just an acquaintance, I would be uncomfortable, and would tell her that I would rather not know so please don't tell me. Usually a person starts off with "I have to tell you something but please don't repeat it". If it is a friend who has a secret problem, and needs advice I am glad that she felt secure enough to come to me knowing I might be able to help, and keep her secret. My 7 children, and I have great communication and they always tell me their secrets, problems, and achievements. They know that when I am in one of their homes, I never repeat anything that is not favorable to another child.
11. As a clinical social worker, it is my job to hear and keep other people's secrets. I will admit that while I have no trouble doing this for my clients, I hate when friends or family share good news with me that they don't want told to anyone else yet. When I hear good news, I want to tell the world about it.
12. No. I feel obviously they hold value in our relationship and have a great deal of trust in me. How empowering and blessed and honored that feels, for me personally. However, I never spend time with idle chatter and gossip. Gossip is poison. God bless****
13. No.... Peace.
14. I don't hate it I feel special.
15. No it makes me feel wanted and trusted Respect shaz
16. yeah it's shocking, so i always tell it to someone else. as a secret of course...
17. Not really. I just keep that secret to myself and that is the end of it.